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Thirty-five years of public health research clearly demonstrates that young people who receive honest, age-appropriate, non-judgmental information about puberty, relationships and sexual health are more likely to delay sexual initiation when they are young and to use condoms and other contraceptive methods when they do become sexually active. Further, quality sex education can help young people successfully navigate puberty, learn about healthy body image, distinguish between healthy and unhealthy relationships, and understand the concepts of consent and mutual respect.
It's important to take care of your physical health. This includes your body and, by extension, your sexual health. Sexual health covers a wide range of areas, including managing hygiene, caring for reproductive organs as well as protecting yourself from unintended pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Depending on where you live, you may be able to get health care that caters to you as a young person, including—in some places-school-based sexual health services. At youth-friendly health care centers, you should be able to find thoughtful, knowledgeable and caring individuals, who can help you access birth control, STD testing, emergency contraception and counseling on sexuality, relationships and more. If you do not have sexual health services in your school, you may also be able to find them at your nearest hospital, community health clinic or Planned Parenthood health center.
Access to sexual health care services can be a challenge in states where services are limited or require high levels of parental involvement. Find out what regulations exist in your area as well as what policies apply to young people seeking health services. You have the right to ask questions of a health care center to find out what services they provide, whether you can access them without parental permission, and whether your visit and records will be kept confidential. You may also have concerns about the cost of services. While many community health centers provide low-to no-cost services, it is important to ask in advance, particularly if you want to use insurance, since your parents may be notified if you use their insurance to cover the cost of services.
Even in the most restrictive areas, there may still be resources you can access that help with certain sexual health issues. Apps that assist with period tracking, birth control reminders, or finding accessible health care centers may be useful, as well as information lines, like the CDC National HIV/AIDS Hotline. It may be uncomfortable to seek out services as a young person, but enlisting the help of an adult you trust can help keep you from stressing out.
Sexual health is more than pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease (STD) prevention. It's also keeping up with reproductive health and hygiene, as well as any other routine checkups you might need. For example, the HPV vaccine is recommended for all young people ages 9 through 14, regardless of whether or not they have had sex. Paying attention to your sexual health now is the perfect way to be prepared for anything in the future that might need more attention as you get older.
It can be difficult to find support for sexual health in areas that have limited resources or that have generally sex-negative attitudes. When this happens, finding even one trusted adult who can help you could make all the difference, as can taking advantage of free information resources that exist online or that can be downloaded to your phone. Between apps, websites and hotlines, you can find answers to many of the most basic sexual health questions you might have, and even ones you might not have even known you had.
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body. During this time, your uterus starts creating a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients inside in case you have sex and a fetus (or baby-to-be) starts to grow in there. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out the layer of nutrients, called the endometrium, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your body then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again.
It's normal to feel nervous or anxious about getting your period. It can help to talk with an adult that you trust about what to expect and to carry some feminine hygiene supplies (like a maxi pad or tampon) with you just in case.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating.
Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones—the body's chemical signals-—tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry— it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation.
Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Most people have the same basic body parts—-heads, arms, legs and feet. While we are mostly similar, we do have different reproductive and sexual organs. A person who is female or assigned the sex of female at birth typically has these parts that are visible on the outside of the body: the pubic mound, the inner and outer lips (or labia), the clitoris, the urethra, the vaginal opening and the anus.
People with vaginas also have a variety of internal reproductive organs, including ovaries, Fallopian or uterine tubes, a uterus and a vagina. When a person with a vagina goes through puberty, the ovaries begin to release tiny eggs about once a month. When one of the ovaries releases an egg, it travels down the Fallopian or uterine tubes toward the uterus. Each month when there is no pregnancy, the uterus sheds its extra lining and pushes it out through the vagina. This is what is commonly called "getting your period."
It is important to take care of one's sexual health by knowing what your body is like when it's healthy and seeking medical care if anything should change with how your body functions, looks or smells.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Most people have the same basic body parts—heads, arms, legs and feet. While we are mostly similar, we do have different reproductive and sexual organs. A person who is male or assigned the sex of male at birth typically has a penis; a urethra, where urine and semen leave the body, a scrotum, which contains two testes; and an anus.
Just as people's appearance can vary greatly so do people's reproductive organs vary in the way they look. Some penises are circumcised, meaning the foreskin has been removed, and some are uncircumcised, meaning the foreskin is intact. Both are normal.
People with a penis also have a variety of internal reproductive organs, including the prostate, seminal vesicles, Cowper's glands and epididymis. The testicles start producing sperm during puberty, and continue to create sperm until a person dies.
It is important to take care of one's sexual health by knowing what your body is like when it's healthy and seeking medical care if anything should change with how your body functions, looks or smells.
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals—tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry-it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm—can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Puberty is an exciting and sometimes challenging time. It's totally normal to feel a bit unsure about yourself during this period. Remember, everyone experiences these changes differently, and that's perfectly okay. The key to navigating this phase is building self-confidence and being true to yourself.
Self-confidence is about believing in your abilities and valuing who you are. It's not about being perfect; it's about appreciating your uniqueness. When you trust yourself and your decisions, it makes it easier to face new situations and challenges.
Being yourself means embracing what makes you, well, you! It's about liking your quirks, interests, and even the things that make you different from your friends. Don't be afraid to show your true colors, because these are the things that make you special.d know that self-confidence is your greatest superpower. The most important thing that you can do is be yourself!
During puberty your body goes through a lot of changes. Sometimes this can be overwhelming, and you may notice that you don't like everything about the way you look all of the time. How you feel about your body is referred to as your body image. Your family, friends and images you see on TV, online and in movies and magazines can also influence how you feel about your body. People of all genders can have positive or negative feelings about different aspects of their bodies. It's important to know that many of the images we see online, on TV and in magazines are not real. They are created by using computer programs like Photoshop to make a person look more like certain ideal images of beauty, but are unattainable in real life. It is important to remember that everyone is different and that is what makes us all unique!
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones—-the body's chemical signals-tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry—it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Feelings of sadness, irritability, hopelessness, worthlessness or having difficulty concentrating can happen to anyone, regardless of age. But if you notice these feelings continuing for longer than a few weeks, you may be depressed. Sometimes, depression can also include thoughts of wanting to harm yourself or even suicide. In this case, it's really important that you talk to a trusted adult who can help you.
It is also normal to feel nervous or worried especially if you're in a new or stressful situation, like when you take a test. But if you're so worried you can't focus on anything but what you're anxious about, you should talk to an adult you trust.
When you're feeling especially sad or worried, you may want to be alone, but the most useful thing to do is reach out to a trusted adult. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to. If you can't seem to shake feeling sad or worried, there is nothing wrong with you, though you may be depressed or anxious. It's important to know that you aren't alone and you can get help if you need it.
All people are sexual beings, no matter what their bodies can or cannot do physically or what type of support they may need from time to time or all of the time. It's important for young people living with disabilities to learn about sexuality. They have the same hormones and sexual needs and desires as other people, and they can have different sexual orientations (heterosexual, bisexual, gay, asexual, etc.) and gender identities (transgender, cisgender, gender nonconforming, etc.). Young people with disabilities want the same thing everyone else wants in a relationship-respect, consent, communication and fun, which is why people regardless of their abilities need to learn about expressing romantic interest in a partner, healthy relationships, dealing with rejection and sexual health.
If you are a young person with a disability, sex education can help you learn about communicating interest in a partner and healthy relationships as well as any specific concerns about what you can or cannot do in sexual situations. Talk to a parent, guardian, health care provider or other trusted adult about how you can get the sex education you need.
It can definitely be confusing to know when you can and can't kiss someone you like. The only way to know for sure if you can kiss your partner or engage in other sexual behaviors with them is to ask them each and every time. This is called getting their consent. It is very common to think that your partner may be into kissing or another sexual behavior by the way they are acting, but just because someone is acting a certain way, it doesn't necessarily mean they want to engage in a behavior.
Even though rejection can be hurtful, it's important to remember that there is nothing wrong with you. So, don't think that you need to change any aspect of your looks, personality or values. You are perfect just the way you are!
It's not right that this happened to you, and it is not your fault. No one should touch you, or force you to touch them, in a way that is not okay, whether you know this person or not or if this person is an adult or older kid or even someone your age. Don't keep this a secret. Find someone you trust, like a parent, family member, teacher, coach, a friend's parent or neighbor, and tell them what happened. There are people out there who can help. By law, most adult professionals (like teachers, coaches and doctors) are required to report this information to the police, so they can help to protect you and try to prevent the crime from happening again. You may be worried about getting the person who touched you or made you touch them in trouble, but remember that you have done nothing wrong and deserve to be safe. The best way to prevent this from happening again or to someone else is to talk to a trusted adult. You could talk face to face or on the phone. You could also send a text, email or letter. You could even make a drawing, if that's easier. The important thing is to tell someone. Keep telling until you get help.
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
One of the changes that happens is developing breasts. There might be a lot of attention placed on growing breasts and breast size. Some people might be concerned that their breasts are not growing like their friends' breasts. There are people who may be the first of their friends to start growing breasts, while others may be the very last of their friends. Either way, a person might feel awkward or self-conscious if they are concerned their breasts are too big or too small. But here is what you have to remember: having bigger breasts doesn't make you more beautiful or sexy. It's all about who you are as a person that makes you attractive. Whether you have big breasts, little breasts or no breasts at all, you are uniquely and wonderfully made just the way you are!
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
Between the ages of 10 and 14, boys start to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when a person's body changes from a child to a young adult. Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it. During this time, a boy's whole body grows, including the penis and scrotum. Messages from TV, movies and magazines might give the impression that having a bigger penis is better. Just as having bigger eyes doesn't make a person see better, having a bigger penis does not make a person more attractive or a better sexual partner. Penis size is a trait or feature that a person inherits from their parents, and penises, just like our other body parts, come in lots of different shapes and sizes.
Some people may have penises that are less than the average size, while others may have penises that are more than the average size. Some penises are circumcised, which means the foreskin of the penis has been removed. Other penises are uncircumcised, which means the foreskin has not been removed.
When a penis is erect or hard, the tissue that the penis is made of fills with blood, causing the penis to become very sensitive. As a penis becomes erect, it gets larger in size. That means that the size of a non-erect penis cannot predict the size of an erect penis. Penises vary in the way that they hang when they are not erect and the direction they point when they are erect. Some penises may hang to the left, while others may hang to the right or in the middle when they are not erect. Erect penises may point to the left or to the right, while others may point straight out, upward or downward.
What's most important to remember is that penises comes in lots of different shapes and sizes, just likes eyes or noses. So don't believe the myth that a larger penis will make you a better sexual partner or bring more pleasure. Bigger does not mean that a penis works better. When you finish growing, your penis will be just the right size for you!
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals-tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry—it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Masturbation is the touching of one's own body, especially the genitals, for sexual pleasure. Some people masturbate and others do not. Either way is normal. Masturbation can help you learn about your body and your sexual feelings without the complications that can come when you have sex or do sexual things with another person. Masturbation cannot result in pregnancy or cause a sexually transmitted disease (STD). If you do decide to masturbate, be sure you do it somewhere private, like the bathroom or your bedroom.
No, masturbation will not hurt you or cause any health problems. There are many myths about how masturbating will affect you, but actually it cannot hurt you physically, even if done frequently. It should feel good, and it can also relieve stress and be a physically safe way to express sexual feelings.
A lot of people believe that masturbation is a normal, healthy thing to do. While masturbation is very common, there are lots of different beliefs about it. It's a good idea to talk with a parent or adult you trust to learn more about your family's views about masturbation.
It's absolutely true that many girls masturbate. In fact, most people do it at some point in their lives. That means it's normal if you do, and it's normal if you don't.
During puberty, you may begin to wonder for the first time about who you really are. You may even begin to worry more about what others think of you. Are you smart? Funny? Introverted? Artistic? It is totally normal to try out different ways of being until you figure out what is right for you. At this stage, you may try on new identities, experiment with the way you look or act and explore new friendships and interests.
It is also totally normal to spend more time with your friends during this time, but remember, just because your friends and peers like certain things, act a certain way or dress in a certain way, you don't have to unless you want to! Pressure to fit in and pressure from your peers can seem overwhelming, but you always have the right to do what is best for you and to say no.
You will also notice that you may want to be more independent from your parents or other family members. This is because you are beginning the transition from being a child to being an adult. You will begin to make more decisions on your own, choose who you want to spend your time with and choose what you spend your time doing.
This is a really exciting time in your life! You have the ability to begin to try new things and discover who you really are. What is important to keep in mind is that you have the right to be you!
It is totally normal for your likes and dislikes to change during this time in your life. As you get older, you may get clearer about what you are interested in, and you get to make more of the choices about what activities you want to participate in rather than your parents making those decisions. Most adults understand that this is a time when your interests may change, and your parents should be supportive. We encourage you to talk with them about how you are feeling.
As you grow up, you will notice your groups of friends may change. This is totally normal because during this time you are really figuring out who you are and what your interests are. They may not be the same as all the friends you've had since you were little and that is okay. We encourage you to find friends who share similar interests with you and are supportive of who you are.
Okay, so you know how our bodies go through changes as we grow up? Well, for people with uteruses, one of those changes is something called the menstrual cycle. This is a totally natural process where the lining of the uterus (kind of like a cozy blanket inside) sheds, and that's what causes the bleeding we call a period. Usually, this lasts for about 5-7 days.
Now, when you're on your period, it might feel a little uncomfortable, but there are things called menstrual hygiene products that can help make it easier. These are things like pads, tampons, menstrual cups, and special underwear made for periods. They soak up the blood and keep you feeling dry and comfy. Plus, they stop any leaks or stains on your clothes, which is super helpful!
Sometimes people think that when you have your period, you have to stay home and can't do fun stuff like hang out with friends or play sports. But with these hygiene products, you can still do all those things! They help you stay active and do the things you love without any worries. So, having a period doesn't have to stop you from enjoying life.
It's essential to use clean and comfortable menstrual products like pads, tampons, period underwear, or menstrual cups to prevent infections. Depending on the product you choose (and it's completely up to you), remember to change them regularly. Pads and reusable pads should be changed every 3-4 hours, tampons every 4-8 hours, menstrual cups emptied, cleaned, and reinserted every 10-12 hours, and period underwear changed every 4-6 hours. Reusable options like pads and underwear can be washed and reused for up to a year, while menstrual cups can be used for 5-10 years.
Unfortunately, some people who have periods don't have access to affordable menstrual products. If you find yourself in this situation, don't worry! You can create makeshift pads using household items. For example, folding several sheets of toilet paper or paper towel and securing them in your underwear works in a pinch.
You can also make reusable pads by sewing together fabrics like cotton and fleece.
Taking care of your menstrual hygiene is crucial for your overall health and happiness. By staying informed and practicing proper hygiene, you can confidently navigate your menstrual cycle and embrace every part of your journey!
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
Sometimes it can be awkward to ask a parent or trusted adult questions about puberty and sex. As uncomfortable as it may feel, remember that they were once your age and went through the same things you are going through. A parent or adult you trust can provide the support you deserve as you go through puberty. That's why it is important for you to have at least one adult you trust and can talk with.
Choose someone you think is a good listener and won't be judgmental. Choose someone who will help you figure out what to do in a tough spot or help you process your feelings and thoughts. Look for someone you admire-someone you think you might like to grow up to be like one day. Ask yourself, Do I respect this person? Do I trust them? Will they take me seriously? Will they respect me and not judge me? Trusted adults can be your parents, grandparents, other relatives, caregivers, teachers or coaches. Even your friends' parents can provide advice, answer difficult questions, share their values and/or faith traditions and help you as you grow into an adult. Regardless of who a trusted adult is to you, what matters is that this person provide the support you need and deserve.
It is totally normal to feel embarrassed to talk about these topics with your parents, especially if your family has never talked about puberty and growing up. However, it is important to remember that adults were your age at one point in their lives, and they have a lot of experience with these topics. You may be surprised how open and willing they are to talk.
If you still don't feel like you can talk to a parent, you can identify another adult that you trust to have these conversations with. This might be another relative, a teacher, a coach, a guidance counselor or even a friend's parent.
It is totally normal to feel embarrassed to talk about these topics with your parents. Most likely, your mom just wants to show you that she supports you and that you can talk to her if you have questions. If you feel like she is being too pushy or overbearing, just let her know that you aren't ready to talk about these topics right now, but if and when you are ready, you understand that she is there for you.
Mood swings - when a person's feelings change quickly and might feel very intense - are a normal part of puberty. You might feel moody, crabby or even suddenly want to cry and then feel fine or happy. These mood swings are often caused by hormones, and they are totally normal while you're going through puberty.
Mood swings are when a person's mood changes very quickly. That can include going from one extreme (like angry) to another extreme (like happy). These shifts in mood can happen quickly and teel intense.
Mood swings are a normal part of puberty. It's important to be patient with yourself and others who might be experiencing mood swings.
During puberty, the process in which a person grows into an adult, the brain starts to make a lot more hormones. Hormones are the body's chemical signals that tell certain body parts to grow, and they also affect the part of the brain that manages feelings or moods. This increase in hormones can otten lead to mood swings. This is all pertectly normal and tends to even out once a person is done with the changes of puberty.
Experiencing mood swings can be exhausting. So it's good to keep in mind that mood swings are a perfectly normal part of puberty and growing up. Talking about your feelings with friends and trusted adults can help, as can remembering that you're not alone in dealing with mood swings. Almost everyone going through puberty will deal with mood swings at some point or another.
If you ever feel sad for most of the time, then it's good to talk with a trusted adult or a counselor to check for something called depression. Depression is when someone feels sad most or all of the time. There are ways to help people experiencing it, so it's important to ask for help.
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals—tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry—it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal it you have them and normal if you don't.
Masturbation is the touching of one's own body, especially the genitals, for sexual pleasure. Some people masturbate and others do not. Either way is normal. Masturbation can help you learn about your body and your sexual feelings without the complications that can come when you have sex or do sexual things with another person. Masturbation cannot result in pregnancy or cause a sexually transmitted disease (STD). If you do decide to masturbate, be sure you do it somewhere private, like the bathroom or your bedroom.
No, masturbation will not hurt you or cause any health problems. There are many myths about how masturbating will affect you, but actually it cannot hurt you physically, even if done frequently. It should feel good, and it can also relieve stress and be a physically safe way to express sexual feelings.
A lot of people believe that masturbation is a normal, healthy thing to do. While masturbation is very common, there are lots of different beliefs about it. It's a good idea to talk with a parent or adult you trust to learn more about your family's views about masturbation.
It's absolutely true that many girls masturbate. In fact, most people do it at some point in their lives. That means it's normal it you do, and it's normal it you don't.
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body. During this time, your uterus starts creating a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients inside in case you have sex and a fetus (or baby-to-be) starts to grow in there. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out the layer of nutrients, called the endometrium, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your body then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again.
It's normal to feel nervous or anxious about getting your period. It can help to talk with an adult that you trust about what to expect and to carry some feminine hygiene supplies (like a maxi pad or tampon) with you just in case.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body grows from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls, and people with uteruses, can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls and people with uteruses. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body. During this time, your uterus starts creating a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients inside in case you have sex and a fetus (or baby-to-be) starts to grow. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out the layer of blood and nutrients, called the endometrium, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your body then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again.
Around the world, people talk about menstruation differently, some people call it 'getting your period' or 'your cycle' or 'that time of the month'. Whatever it is called in your community, menstruation is a natural and healthy part of having a uterus! It's also normal to feel nervous or anxious about getting your period. It can help to talk with an adult that you trust about what to expect and to carry some feminine hygiene supplies (like a pad or tampon) with you just in case.
Sometimes girls and people with uteruses face menstruation stigma. Stigma is when a person who is menstruating is judged or shamed by others, even though the judgment usually comes from false information. This is because there are still a lot of myths about menstruation, and lots of people are still learning about what it means to menstruate.
In some places, people on their periods aren't allowed to participate in activities like going to school or attending social events, and sometimes they aren't allowed to leave the house at all. While many communities have stigma about menstruation, together we can break down these myths. The bottom line is that menstruation stigma is a big factor that holds girls and people with uteruses back in many ways. But menstruation is not only a women's issue, all genders must be involved in the conversations and spread positive information to break down stigma, myths, and prevent discrimination.
TRUTH: Menstruation is a natural and healthy part of life!
Menstrual blood is made up of regular blood and uterine lining. It doesn't have any special or dangerous ingredients. Menstrual blood and uterine lining aren't dirty, they are natural and healthy parts of a human body.
TRUTH: Menstruation rights are human rights!
Human rights are rights that every ability to participate in community activities. Because menstrual blood is natural and safe, it is okay for gatherings during their menstruation. It is especially important that young girls are able to attend school during calairy mising may day of their peers academically.
TRUTH: It is okay to talk about menstruation!
There is no shame in menstruating, it is an amazing part of being human and prepares a body to create life! It is okay to talk with others about menstruation, how to care for your body, and where to dispose of menstruation products. There are many ways a person can take care of themselves that are safe, clean, and healthy during their menstrual cycle. Talking about menstruation can help reduce anxiety and fear and increase knowledge and confidence. People who are menstruating have the right to know and make decisions about how they take care of their bodies; talking about it can support them in making healthy and safe choices.
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body. During this time, your uterus starts creating a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients inside in case you have sex and a fetus (or baby-to-be) starts to grow in there. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out the layer of nutrients, called the endometrium, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your body then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again.
It's normal to feel nervous or anxious about getting your period. It can help to talk with an adult that you trust about what to expect and to carry some feminine hygiene supplies (like a maxi pad or tampon) with you just in case.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body. During this time, your uterus starts creating a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients inside in case you have sex and a fetus (or baby-to-be) starts to grow in there. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out the layer of nutrients, called the endometrium, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your body then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again.
It's normal to feel nervous or anxious about getting your period. It can help to talk with an adult that you trust about what to expect and to carry some feminine hygiene supplies (like a maxi pad or tampon) with you just in case.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
Beginning menstruation, often called getting your period, is a normal part of going through puberty for girls. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty signal your brain to release new chemicals, called hormones, into your body. During this time, your uterus starts creating a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients inside in case you have sex and a fetus (or baby-to-be) starts to grow in there. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out the layer of nutrients, called the endometrium, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your body then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again.
It's normal to feel nervous or anxious about getting your period. It can help to talk with an adult that you trust about what to expect and to carry some feminine hygiene supplies (like a maxi pad or tampon) with you just in case.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
One big puberty change for people with a uterus is getting your period. Periods may seem scary, but they're completely normal. Starting your period, also called menstruation, often happens for the first time between the ages of 9 and 14, but it's okay for it to start a bit earlier or later. Your period happens around once a month because changes from puberty tell your brain to release hormones into your body. During this time, your uterus creates a thick, lush layer of blood and nutrients in case you have sex and a fetus, (or baby-to-be) starts to grow in there. If there is no pregnancy, the uterus pushes out this layer of blood and tissue, which comes out of the vagina as your period. Your uterus then begins to create a new layer with a fresh lining and it starts over again- around every 28 days. Period symptoms can be different for each person. Some people have heavy cramping, mood swings, and a heavy flow of blood, and some people only have some, or none, of those symptoms.
It's normal to feel nervous, anxious, or excited about getting your period. But, there are lots of things you can do to feel prepared and take care of yourself while on your period. First, you can track your period on a calendar or phone app so you can notice if there is a pattern and plan for when your period may start again. It's also important to figure out which period product is a good fit for you. You can choose from tampons, maxi pads, period underwear or menstrual cups. And finally, there are lots of ways to lessen any discomfort that comes with having a period, such as a warm bath, heating pad, or exercise. If you have questions about periods, just ask! Other people with periods, especially adults, can help answer your questions.
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
If you're between the ages of 8 and 13, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body starts to develop from being a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some people begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area. Some people might notice they are getting more moody or might notice their hair is more oily. It's all normal and happens to everyone as they go through puberty.
Some people might start to notice the changes of puberty beginning around the ages of 8-9 while for others, it might not begin until 12-13. There is a wide range of ages when a person can go through puberty and it usually takes 5-7 years for all of the changes to be complete. While it can feel like you're the only one dealing with the changes of puberty, everyone goes through these changes, at their own pace in a way that is normal for their body.
People with a penis often begin puberty a little later than people with a vulva. Below are some common changes they go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent, and at times, spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14. Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually everyone goes through it!
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
People with a penis often begin puberty a little later than people with a vulva. Below are some common changes they go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent, and at times, spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals—tell your body to begin changing. Some boys may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other boys might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. Boys may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry —it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen-the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Everyone has a gender identity—a feeling or sense of being masculine, feminine or something else. Sometimes people's gender identity matches their bodies, and sometimes it does not. When someone is born with a penis and identifies as a girl or born with a vagina and identifies as a boy, this person may have a gender identity called "transgender."
The changes of puberty can make any person feel anxious, and it's possible a transgender or trans person may feel especially anxious when their bodies start to change in ways that don't necessarily match their gender identity. These feelings are totally normal.
If your body is changing in ways that do not match how you feel inside, it may be helpful to talk with a trusted adult like a parent, caregiver, counselor, therapist, teacher, or health care provider. These adults may be able to help affirm your gender identity and explore ways to support your pubertal development that are more in line with your affirmed gender.
Lots of people have qualities that are associated with different genders or no gender at all. If you feel like your gender identity does not fit neatly into a boy or girl category, that's perfectly normal. Some people may identify as nonbinary, meaning their gender identity isn't simply boy or girl. You may choose to dress or style your hair in lots of different ways that feel good to you! As you figure out what feels right for you, you might find it helpful to reach out to a trusted adult or friend for support.
If you feel like your body does not match how you feel inside, then you may also want to talk to an adult that you can trust. People who feel like their bodies do not match how they feel inside may identify as transgender or trans. With the help of trusted adults like parents, doctors, and counselors, you can explore what might help make you feel more comfortable in your body.
Mood swings-when a person's feelings change quickly and might feel very intense-are a normal part of puberty. You might feel moody, crabby or even suddenly want to cry and then feel fine or happy. These mood swings are often caused by hormones, and they are totally normal while you're going through puberty.
Mood swings are when a person's mood changes very quickly. That can include going from one extreme (like angry) to another extreme (like happy). These shifts in mood can happen quickly and feel intense. Mood swings are a normal part of puberty. It's important to be patient with yourself and others who might be experiencing mood swings.
During puberty, the process in which a person grows into an adult, the brain starts to make a lot more harmones Hormones are the body's chemical signals that tell certain body parts to grow, and they also affect the part of the brain that manages teelings or moods |his increase in hormones. can often lead to mood swings.
This is all perfectly normal and tends to even out once a person is done with the changes of puberty.
Experiencing mood swings can be exhausting. So it's good to keep in mind that mood swings are a perfectly normal part of puberty and growing up. Talking about your feelings with friends and trusted adults can help, as can remembering that you're not alone in dealing with mood swings. Almost everyone going through puberty will deal with mood swings at some point or another.
If you ever feel sad for most of the time, then it's good to talk with a trusted adult or a counselor to check for something called depression. Depression is when someone feels sad most or all of the time. There are ways to help people experiencing it, so it's important to ask for help.
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a tew days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others con't. Giris commoniv use a maxil pad, tampon or teminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a preqnancy. It an ega is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, on shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
When you're a kid, the only way you usually interact with a health care provider-like a doctor or nurse—is if a parent or guardian takes you for a physical or other health services. As you get older, however, there may be times when it makes more sense for you to speak directly with your doctor or a health care provider without a parent or guardian in the room. In most cases, only you will know best how your body is changing, so you are the best person to share this with a health care provider. In addition, you might also find yourself needing more privacy to talk to your health care provider about issues that are coming up for you or to get answers to questions you might have. If you aren't offered time to speak alone with your health care provider, you have the right to ask for it. This may be hard to do, but it is important and allows you to practice for a time when you will need to advocate for your health needs as an adult.
You can talk with your health care provider in private about so many things. You might choose to talk about changes happening with your body during puberty or serious issues, like abuse or relationship violence, substance use, coming out as LGBTQ, or being harassed or bullied in school. Because confidentiality laws can vary, be sure to ask what your health care provider can or cannot keep confidential. Knowing this will allow you to make an informed decision about how much you want to share.
It is really hard to know unless you ask outright whether your information will be protected and kept confidential by your medical provider. That said, you can look for cues in the way your health care provider treats you that help you determine if they are open to talking about sexual health and confidentiality. Do they express care and non-judgment? Do they have materials or rules in their office that state they're open to discussing sexual health? Often something as simple as a rainbow sticker or poster can let you know that it's a safe space where you can talk about issues like sexual orientation. These cues provide an opening to talk with your health care provider about confidentiality.
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones—the body's chemical signals-tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry— it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterand that tells the testicles to starti making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen-the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation.
Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet oft the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal. if you have them and normal if you don't
Mood swings-when a person's feelings change quickly and might feel very intense-are a normal part of puberty. You might feel moody, crabby or even suddenly want to cry and then feel fine or happy. These mood swings are often caused by hormones, and they are totally normal while you're going through puberty.
Mood swings are when a person's mood changes very quickly. That can include going from one extreme (like angry) to another extreme (like happy). These shifts in mood can happen quickly and feel intense. Mood swings are a normal part of puberty. It's important to be patient with yourself and others who might be experiencing mood swings.
During puberty, the process in which a person grows into an adult, the brain starts to make a lot more hormones. Hormones are the body's chemical signals that tell certain body parts to grow, and they also affect the part of the brain that manages feelings or moods. This increase in hormones can often lead to mood swings.
This is all perfectly normal and tends to even out once a person is done with the changes of puberty.
Experiencing mood swings can be exhausting. So it's good to keep in mind that mood swings are a perfectly normal part of puberty and growing up. Talking about your feelings with friends and trusted adults can help, as can remembering that you're not alone in dealing with mood swings. Almost everyone going through puberty will deal with mood swings at some point or another.
If you ever feel sad for most of the time, then it's good to talk with a trusted adult or a counselor to check for something called depression. Depression is when someone feels sad most or all of the time. There are ways to help people experiencing it, so it's important to ask for help.
All people have different types of bodies and abilities, even young people, this is what makes us all uniquethere is no such thing as a 'perfect body'! Some people have different abilities-sometimes called disabilities or 'differently-abled'-but really, it just means a unique way of living and experiencing the world. Around the globe, people talk about bodies and abilities differently. In some situations, people might not share that they have a disability. In other situations, people introduce themselves with their disability identity first, they might sign, 'I am a deaf', or sometimes people say things like 'Hi my name is..., and I have a disability'. No matter how people communicate about their bodies and abilities, it is important to respect their choices and speak to them, and about them, in the ways they feel most affirmed and respected.
There are many ways people with disabilities experience the world; some people move around in wheelchairs, others communicate with sign language or computers, and some people have trusted adults who help them with daily tasks like making decisions, going to the bathroom, or coping with feelings. Moving our bodies and minds differently is what makes us all special-and is a great way to show our unique personalities-embrace and be proud of your unique self! It's also important to remember that disabled people, however they identify, have the same rights, feelings, and wants as everyone else. This includes the desire to be in relationships and explore sexual and romantic feelings.
If you're a disabled person, you probably have some of the same feelings about your body as your friends, like sexual or romantic feelings towards others, notice your body changing during puberty, and have questions about your body. Whatever you are feeling, know that it is natural and healthy, and you have the same human rights to these feelings, the information, and the services as your friends and classmates. This includes choosing to be or not be in relationships with others, making decisions about how you will care for your body when it goes through puberty or menstruates, communicating when and how people can touch you, and making decisions about birth control and pregnancy. Your body is yours, and even if you experience the world differently, you have a right to make the choices that are best for you!
Sometimes you might need help caring for your body, you might need someone to help you move, communicate, go to the bathroom, get dressed, or eat. If anyone touches your body without your permission, in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, hurts you physically or emotionally, or pressures you to participate in sexual activity, tell your trusted adult immediately. If your trusted adult has hurt you, and you need help, feel confused, or need someone to talk to, google resources in your community for people with disabilities or ask an ally for support.
You probably know a person with a disability, even if you can't see it. Being an ally means noticing when the rights of others aren't being respected and helping them to make change. There are lots of ways to be an ally to disabled people. First, make sure to learn about the rights of others, including young disabled people. Remember that all people are individuals, and everyone has a right to make their own, unique decisions when it comes to their bodies; not everyone with the same disability will make the same choice, and everyone feels different about their disability. Next, speak up when you notice words and actions that are hurtful, physically or emotionally; tell a trusted adult or contact a local organization for help. If you feel like a friend's rights have been violated, or someone has made them feel uncomfortable, or if something just isn't quite right, talk to your trusted adult immediately, they can help you find support and get help. Don't forget to include and work with disabled people in everything you do, whether it's starting a club, making an online campaign, or changing rules at school or in your community. Most importantly, understand that sometimes you might make mistakes, there is no such thing as a perfect ally, but continue to learn, grow, and speak up!
Remember, working together to support the rights of all people is the best way to ensure the safety, health, and happiness of everyone!
It can definitely be confusing to know when you can and can't kiss someone you like. The only way to know for sure if you can kiss your partner or engage in other sexual behaviors with them is to ask them each and every time. This is called getting their consent. It is very common to think that your partner may be into kissing or another sexual behavior by the way they are acting, but just because someone is acting a certain way, it doesn't necessarily mean they want to engage in a behavior.
Even though rejection can be hurtful, it's important to remember that there is nothing wrong with you. So, don't think that you need to change any aspect of your looks, personality or values. You are perfect just the way you are!
It's not right that this happened to you, and it is not your fault. No one should touch you, or force you to touch them, in a way that is not okay, whether you know this person or not or if this person is an adult or older kid or even someone your age. Don't keep this a secret. Find someone you trust, like a parent, family member, teacher, coach, a friend's parent or neighbor, and tell them what happened. There are people out there who can help. By law, most adult professionals (like teachers, coaches and doctors) are required to report this information to the police, so they can help to protect you and try to prevent the crime from happening again. You may be worried about getting the person who touched you or made you touch them in trouble, but remember that you have done nothing wrong and deserve to be safe. The best way to prevent this from happening again or to someone else is to talk to a trusted adult. You could talk face to face or on the phone. You could also send a text, email or letter. You could even make a drawing, if that's easier. The important thing is to tell someone. Keep telling until you get help.
People often use their religious beliefs, family traditions or cultural beliefs to help them make important decisions, including decisions about relationships and sex. For some people, their religious faith-such as Islam, Christianity, Hinduism or Buddhism-informs what they believe and value. Some people may have cultural beliefs or family traditions that are informed by their faith and help them make decisions. Other people may not have specific religious beliefs. Not everyone believes the same thing. Having different beliefs doesn't make one person right and the other person wrong; it just makes them different.
These different beliefs can inform how people think and feel about if and when to have sex, gender roles, contraceptives (birth control) and sexual orientation. These topics can be complicated, and people's beliefs and traditions may vary across communities. Even within religious groups, people who share the same faith may have conflicting ideas about these topics.
Some people will hold on to or practice beliefs in line with how they've been taught, while other people's beliefs-religious or otherwise-will change as they get older and learn new things. People's stronger feelings about religious or cultural beliefs and the impact they have on a person's sexuality can create conflict when people's perspectives are very different from one another.
What is most important to remember is that your beliefs, morals or values do not make you right or wrong. They are your beliefs-even if other people do not agree with them—and ideally they help you make decisions and choose what is right for you. Even though we may believe different things and have different values, we can still show respect for one another by not imposing our beliefs on other people. Having different beliefs, values and perspectives makes us all distinct and special.
Deciding when to have sex is a very personal decision. There are lots of things a person may consider when deciding if they are ready to have sex. People's decisions about when to have sex can be informed by their personal feelings about when the time is right, their families' beliefs, cultural beliefs or religious beliefs. People get to decide for themselves when they are ready to have sex. Most young people wait to have sex until they're about 17. Only 41 percent of high school students have ever had sex, and very few have sex before getting to high school. Even though it might seem like a lot of people your age are having sex, it's totally normal to wait until you're older and feel more ready.
No one can tell if a person is a virgin just by looking at them or even from a medical exam. People once believed that you could tell if a girl was a virgin if her hymen was not broken. The hymen is a thin tissue that can cover part of the vaginal opening (located about a half-inch inside the vagina). We know now that some people are born without hymens, and some people's hymen's can be broken from doing ordinary things, like gymnastics or using a tampon. What is important is not whether someone's hymen is broken or they have engaged in sexual behaviors, but that they choose to have sex when it is healthy and right for them.
People can sometimes disagree about what it means to "have sex." Some people believe being a virgin means never having been involved in any type of sexual behavior with another person, including oral sex. For other people, being a virgin means never having had vaginal sex. Someone may never have vaginal sex but engage in other sexual behaviors, like oral sex. Does this make that person a virgin? People define virginity in different ways, including not believing in it at all. What is important is not whether someone has or had not engaged in sexual behaviors, but that they choose to have sex when it is healthy and right for them.
Being connected to your friends, family, and everyone else online can be awesome! However, it is easy to get caught up with feeling like life needs to be perfect and comparing ourselves to others. It can feel great when we get 'likes' and 'views', but sometimes social media can make us feel sad depressed, or like everyone else is better than us or having more fun.
When we compare ourselves to others on social media, it can affect our self-image and make us believe who we are just isn't good enough. Self-image is how we feel about our looks, the things we do, and who we are as individuals. It's important to use social media in ways that helps us be confident in our unique self-image.
Social media is a place where most people post the best versions of themselves, having fun, being successful, and looking and feeling great. But remember, no one is perfect! Often people don't share when they feel sad, lonely, or make mistakes. Some people even get paid to only post good things-like ads! It's important to know that many of the images we see online are not real. They are created by using computer programs like Photoshop or filters to make a person look like a certain image -but it's impossible in real life. Everyone is different and that is what makes us all special! Don't compare your life or your self-image to others.
Its ok to take a break from social media, you can reduce your apps to just one or two and limit the time you spend randomly scrolling. Some people even delete their social media and spend time doing other things, like being with friends in real life, playing sports and games, or watching their favorite shows.
Social media affects our self-image and sometimes we don't even realize it. Every time we scroll through an app, our eyes send picture messages to our brain, and our brain saves these images and messages as real life. Over time, we begin to compare real life to these false images stored in our brain, even if we aren't trying to. This is one reason limiting your time on social media can make you feel more confident and have a positive self-image.
Try calling or texting a friend to meet up in real life! If you have FOMO, your friends might too. Calling someone to hang out or just talk on the phone can make them feel included and is a great way to connect.
There are a few questions to ask yourself:
Is there a specific product in the post?
Does the person tag a company or brand?
Is the person selling something?
Does the post link to another post?
If the answer is yes to any of these, chances are it is an ad-and not real life.
Every person is different, but if you start to notice you feel bad about yourself or notice that you compare yourself to others when you are scrolling, it's time to take a break and do an activity that doesn't involve your device! If you notice that you check your device automaticallywithout realizing it or feel like you have to check your social media all the time, you might be developing an unhealthy habit and spending too much time online.
It's a fact of life that bodies, for a whole host of reasons, can have a strong odor. You may be more aware of this as your body goes through puberty—the changes that happen when your body goes from a child to a young adult. These changes include increased hormone production, body oil secretion and body hair growth. It's these changes that can cause a person to smell more than they used to or to experience things, like acne.
Because of all the effects these changes can have on the body, it's very important to create and practice good hygiene habits, even more than you might have when you were younger. Taking regular showers or washing up, using deodorant consistently, and being sure to wear a fresh set of clothes each day can go a long way toward managing strong odors. Using perfume, cologne or body spray may be a good way to try out new scents on the body as well. Just be sure to use them only after you shower and avoid putting on a lot, as too much can be overpowering to others, even if it smells good.
If you've started your menstrual period as part of your puberty process, being sure to change your pads, tampons, cups and/or other menstrual products in a timely fashion is also very important. Gentle daily facecleaning, along with exercising, drinking lots of clean water and staying away from excessive junk food (candy, sodas/juice, fried chips, etc.) can help reduce menstrual cramps and keep pores clear from acne. That said, it is possible you may still need professional help, if pimples don't go away easily. For special cases of acne, skin care professionals, like dermatologists, may prescribe creams or other treatments that are stronger than treatments you find in a drugstore.
Puberty can produce many different feelings, including wonder, awe, curiosity and discomfort-even anxiety. That said, the changes of puberty and feelings about those changes are very normal, even if they don't always feel good when they happen. When uncertainty arises, reach out to trusted older peers and adults for support and strategies for making sure you always look and feel your best.
Body hair is a common part of puberty for many, if not most people. Besides on the head, body hair may grow in a number of others places, including the face, chest, arms, legs, under the armpits, in the pubic area and over the genitals. For those who have body hair, it can help keep a person's body temperature steady, and keep dust, debris and germs from entering and causing harm to the body. Some people, however, may choose to cut or shave their body hair off, without experiencing any major problems as a result.
Acne occurs when a person has a considerable number of pimples.
Pimples may be small red bumps, bumps filled with pus (whiteheads) or pores blocked with solidified oil and dead skin with a dark surface color (blackheads). Acne is usually found on the face, though it can also appear on the neck, chest, back and even near the groin or genitals. The body's increased oil production and changes in hormones during puberty, especially during the beginning of the menstrual cycle, may cause acne to appear. There are many different treatments for acne that can be found at a regular drugstore. Beyond this, it's important to avoid touching or squeezing pimples, as doing so increases inflammation and could cause scarring of the skin. If acne is especially troublesome, skin care professionals, like dermatologists, may prescribe creams or other treatments that are stronger than treatments you find in a drugstore.
Showering and body washing are how people can best remove sweat, dirt and other buildup that may have accumulated over the day. When a person doesn't shower, sweat and dirt eventually build up on the body, and the person will develop a strong odor. Taking regular showers will limit strong body odor. Daily showers may not be right for a person with especially dry or sensitive skin or conditions like psoriasis or eczema. Some scientists report that overshowering can cause skin problems. It is very important, however, to find the right balance for your body's needs.
Mood swings—when a person's feelings change quickly and might feel very intense-are a normal part of puberty. You might feel moody, crabby or even suddenly want to cry and then feel fine or happy. These mood swings are often caused by hormones, and they are totally normal while you're going through puberty.
Mood swings are when a person's mood changes very quickly. That can include going from one extreme (like angry) to another extreme (like happy). These shifts in mood can happen quickly and feel intense. Mood swings are a normal part of puberty. It's important to be patient with yourself and others who might be experiencing mood swings.
During puberty, the process in which a person grows into an adult, the brain starts to make a lot more hormones. Hormones are the body's chemical signals that tell certain body parts to grow, and they also affect the part of the brain that manages feelings or moods. This increase in hormones can often lead to mood swings. This is all perfectly normal and tends to even out once a person is done with the changes of puberty.
Experiencing mood swings can be exhausting. So it's good to keep in mind that mood swings are a perfectly normal part of puberty and growing up. Talking about your feelings with friends and trusted adults can help, as can remembering that you're not alone in dealing with mood swings. Almost everyone going through puberty will deal with mood swings at some point or another.
If you ever feel sad for most of the time, then it's good to talk with a trusted adult or a counselor to check for something called depression. Depression is when someone feels sad most or all of the time. There are ways to help people experiencing it, so it's important to ask for help.
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals— tell your body to begin changing. Some people who are biologically male may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. A person that has a penis may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body. Erections can happen at times that are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry—it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen-the fluid that contains sperm-can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that| first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
If you're between the ages of 9 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty, or the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry. Puberty in girls can start as early as age 8 and as late as 13 or 14, but eventually everyone goes through it!
There are no set changes that happen for everyone. Some girls begin with growth spurts during which they grow taller. For others, the first sign may be that their breasts begin to grow or hair starts to grow under their arms and in their pubic area.
During puberty, girls begin to get their menstrual periods. Menstrual periods are when a small amount of blood and tissue leave the body through the vagina over the course of a few days. It happens about once every month and can last from a couple of days to a week. Some girls have cramps during their periods while others don't. Girls commonly use a maxi pad, tampon or feminine hygiene cup to manage the blood that leaves their body during a period.
When a girl gets her first period, it signals that her body has begun ovulating. Ovulation happens once a month when a hormone or chemical in the body signals a girl's ovaries to release an egg or ovum. This means that if a girl has unprotected sex she could become pregnant. The hormone estrogen is also released to signal to the girl's uterus to build up its lining. If after sex an egg is fertilized by a sperm, the fertilized egg will implant in the lining and cause a pregnancy. If an egg is not fertilized within 12 to 24 hours after ovulation, the egg dies and disintegrates. Two weeks later, when the uterus realizes there is no fertilized egg, the built-up lining of the uterus is released, or shed, during a girl's menstrual period.
Boys often begin puberty a little later than girls. Below are some common changes boys go through during puberty:
Growing hair on the face, under the arms and in the genital area
Growing taller
Broadening shoulders
Deepening voice
Having frequent and at times spontaneous erections
Possibly experiencing wet dreams, meaning ejaculating semen while sleeping. (This is normal if it happens and normal if it does not.)
Maybe you have heard the word "virgin" or "virginity." But what exactly do those words mean? The word "virgin" means a person who has not had sex. But if being a virgin is defined by whether a person has had sex, what does it mean to "have sex"? For some people, being a virgin means never having had vaginal sex. Someone may never have vaginal sex but engage in other sexual behaviors, like oral sex. Does this make that person a virgin? Other people believe being a virgin means never having been involved in any type of sexual behavior with another person. People have different ideas about what it means to be a virgin, so it is very important to talk to a partner about what sexual behaviors they have engaged in during past relationships before having sex with them. Just because someone considers themselves a virgin, it does not mean that they have not engaged in behaviors that could put them at risk for a sexually transmitted disease (STD).
In the past, people really cared about whether a girl had or had not had sex. The state of being a virgin— virginity-was thought of as a good quality in a girl. People also believed that you could tell if a girl was a virgin. But we now know that no one can tell if a person is a virgin by looking at them or even from doing a medical exam. Choosing to engage in any type of sexual behavior is an important decision, regardless of a person's gender.
What is most important is not whether someone is or is not a virgin, but choosing to have sex when a person is ready. Some people wait until they find a partner they love to have sex. Others wait until they are older, maybe in high school or college. Some people know they aren't ready emotionally to handle the possible consequences. Everyone is different, and each person's decision should be valued and respected. Having or not having sex does not make you a good or bad person. What is important is choosing to do what is best and healthy for you. Talking to a parent, caregiver or adult you trust—like an older sibling or an aunt—can help you work through figuring out what is right for you.
No one can tell if a person is a virgin just by looking at them or even from a medical exam. People once believed that you could tell if a girl was a virgin if her hymen was not broken. The hymen is a thin tissue that can cover part of the vaginal opening (located about a half-inch inside the vagina). We know now that some people are born without hymens, and some people's hymen's can be broken from doing ordinary things, like gymnastics or using a tampon. What is important is not whether someone's hymen is broken or they have engaged in sexual behaviors, but that they choose to have sex when it is healthy and right for them.
People can sometimes disagree about what it means to "have sex." Some people believe being a virgin means never having been involved in any type of sexual behavior with another person, including oral sex. For other people, being a virgin means never having had vaginal sex. Someone may never have vaginal sex but engage in other sexual behaviors, like oral sex. Does this make that person a virgin? People define virginity in different ways, including not believing in it at all.
What is important is not whether someone has or had not engaged in sexual behaviors, but that they choose to have sex when it is healthy and right for them.
Most young people wait to have sex until they're about 17. Only 41 percent of high school students have ever had sex, and very few have sex before getting to high school. Even though it might seem like a lot of people your age are having sex, it's totally normal to wait until you're older and ready.
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm—can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals—tell your body to begin changing. Some boys may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other boys might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. Boys may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body.
Erections can happen at times that| are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry—it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
If you're between the ages of 10 and 14, you've probably started to experience puberty or some of the changes that happen when your body changes from a child to a young adult. Then again, you may not have. Either way, don't worry! Puberty in boys can start as early as age nine and as late as 15, but eventually, everyone goes through it!
During puberty the body produces a hormone called testosterone that tells the testicles to start making sperm. Once the body starts making sperm, semen—the fluid that contains sperm—can be released through the tip of the penis. This is called ejaculation. Wet dreams happen when ejaculation occurs spontaneously while a boy is sleeping. Often when you have that first wet dream, you may think you have peed in the bed, but it's actually semen. You can simply take the sheet off the bed and put it in the hamper to be washed. And remember, wet dreams are normal if you have them and normal if you don't.
Everybody goes through puberty at their own pace. Hormones-the body's chemical signals—tell your body to begin changing. Some boys may experience a growth spurt sooner than others, while other boys might get facial hair or a deeper voice later than others. Your body will go through puberty at the exact right time for you, and there's no way to speed it up or slow it down. So don't worry, it's all totally normal!
Yes, during puberty, people can experience strong sexual feelings for no reason. Boys may get erections, when the penis fills with blood and stands away from the body.
Erections can happen at times that| are inconvenient, like while you're sitting in class, which can be embarrassing. It's good to have a plan for what you can do if and when this happens to you. You can try carrying an extra sweatshirt in your backpack to tie around your waist or a book you can carry in front of you. Mostly, don't worry—it happens to everyone and as you get older, it won't happen nearly as much.
Intimacy is the feeling of closeness that develops between people in a personal relationship. It builds over time, as you connect with someone and grow to care about each other. You need to get to know someone before you can begin to feel intimacy with them and they have to know you, too. Intimacy typically develops after people begin to trust and care about each other and is an important part of relationships.
Within a relationship, intimacy can be emotional, physical or both. Emotional intimacy is being able to have honest communication with someone and know that they won't judge you or betray your trust. You are able to be your true self around this person. Friends can share physical intimacy by giving each other a hug or consoling each other when feeling sad. Physical intimacy can be sexual but it doesn't have to be.
In a romantic relationship, intimacy can become sexual if it is something both partners want. Sexual intimacy can take time to develop as people get to know and feel comfortable with each other. It's important to communicate with your partner about what kind of intimacy they want from the relationship and share with them what you are looking for, too.
For some people, intimacy can feel harder to develop. They might worry about how their body looks or whether they will be accepted as they are. Some people have gone through experiences like past trauma and may need more time to develop intimacy. Since intimacy requires a person to be vulnerable, if someone has been hurt in the past, it can be hard to trust again. Being understanding of this can help to establish a deeper connection with that person.
Emotional intimacy can be created in many ways. It can look different for different people. Building trust with someone often includes learning about each other and sharing your feelings. Closeness can also happen through having shared experiences or common interests.
Communication is an important part of any healthy relationship. It means being able to tell someone how you feel, what you need, what you believe and what you want in an open and honest way. It also means listening to and understanding someone else's feelings, needs, beliefs and desires with the same respect you would want from them. Ideally, people will feel safe sharing these things with each other without fear of a negative reaction.
It can take time and practice for two people to learn to communicate clearly with each other but it's worth it to build mutual respect.
Pleasure is an incredible feeling of happiness, satisfaction, or enjoyment that you experience. It's like encountering something that makes you feel really good in your body and mind. You can find pleasure in many different ways - like traveling, experiencing new activities and making friends. All those things can bring you great joy. Sometimes some people may also find pleasure in movement from dancing to going on hikes. These physical activities can make you feel alive and happy.
As you grow older, you may also start exploring pleasure within romantic and intimate relationships. Some people find pleasure in emotional connections and others may find pleasure in physical touch. There are different ways people find pleasure in relationships. For example, it can feel great when a partner listens to your wants and needs, communicates openly and honestly, and shares intimate feelings with you. Physical touch is also a part of some relationships, like holding hands, kissing, and engaging in other types of intimate touch.
Some individuals find pleasure in masturbation, which means touching your own body, especially the genitals, for sexual pleasure. It's important to know that people have different feelings about masturbation, and it's okay whether you choose to do it or not. Masturbation is a normal and safe way to explore and learn about your body and your own sexual feelings.
Sometimes, when people engage in sexual activities with others or themselves, they may experience something called an orgasm, which is sometimes referred to as 'climaxing' or 'cumming'. An orgasm is a powerful and pleasurable feeling that can happen during sexual activity. It often feels really good throughout the body, and there might be a warm or tingly sensation, particularly in the genitals. Some people may also experience ejaculation, where fluid is released from the penis. It's important to know that not everyone experiences orgasms, and that's completely normal. Many people still feel pleasure during sexual activities without having an orgasm. Pleasure can be enjoyed in different ways, and everyone's experience is unique to them.
Sexual behaviors should bring physical, emotional, and mental pleasure to all participants. It's important to remember that no one should ever pressure you into engaging in any activity, especially sexual behaviors, that you aren't comfortable with, that don't feel good, or that are painful. You have the right to say no if someone tries to pressure you into something that doesn't bring you pleasure or feels wrong.
Experiencing pleasure in sexual activities is a great way to understand what you (and your body) enjoy or to connect intimately with another person. Experiencing pleasure is a normal part of being human and should be celebrated. It's important to remember that some people find pleasure from sexual activity, and some don't. Both are normal!
Remember, everyone's experiences and choices about pleasure are personal, and it's important to respect, communicate, and understand your own boundaries and those of others. If you have any questions or concerns, it's always okay to seek trusted and reliable sources for information and guidance, like a parent, another trusted adult or a healthcare professional.
No, masturbation will not hurt you or cause any health problems. There are many myths about how masturbating will affect you, but actually it cannot hurt you physically, even if done frequently. It should feel good, and it can also relieve stress and be a physically safe way to express sexual feelings.
A lot of people believe that masturbation is a normal, healthy thing to do. While masturbation is very common, there are lots of different beliefs about it. It's a good idea to talk with a parent or adult you trust to learn more about your family's views about masturbation.
It's absolutely true that many girls masturbate. In fact, most people do it at some point in their lives. That means it's normal if you do, and it's normal if you don't.
Lots of people feel butterflies in their stomach, have a racing heart or get sweaty palms when they meet someone new, try something for the first time, answer a question in class or even talk to someone they like. It is totally normal to feel nervous, anxious or shy in a new social situation. But what if those feelings of shyness or self-consciousness turn into a very strong fear? If a person's fear keeps them from trying new things or participating in everyday social situations, then this could be something called social phobia, also known as social anxiety disorder. Having a social phobia or social anxiety disorder means that a person's thoughts and fears are often exaggerated in their minds, and these thoughts and fears can be paralyzing.
There is no way to control how a person reacts to stressful situations, but there are things individuals can learn to help manage those feelings. Talking with a trained counselor - like a school counselor, social worker or psychologist - can help a person dealing with social phobia learn more about what brings on their feelings and how best to manage them so they can enjoy life to the fullest.
During puberty your body goes through a lot of changes. Sometimes this can be overwhelming, and you may notice that you don't like everything about the way you look all of the time. How you feel about your body is referred to as your body image. Your family, friends and images you see on TV, online and in movies and magazines can also influence how you feel about your body. People of all genders can have positive or negative feelings about different aspects of their bodies. It's important to know that many of the images we see online, on TV and in magazines are not real. They are created by using computer programs like Photoshop to make a person look more like certain ideal images of beauty, but are unattainable in real life. It is important to remember that everyone is different and that is what makes us all unique!